The usual countries in which men travel to find Asian wives are Thailand, China and the Philippines.Japan is another possibility although it is a vastly more expensive place to visit than the other Asian countries.
It won’t be too easy though as there are stricter requirements than in China and a lot less vacancies too.
If you’re interested in retiring to Asia then I’d highly recommend you do a bit of research into Malaysia. However, you can find plenty of ladyboys there and I’m sure there will be plenty of ladies interested in hooking up. Just be wary of scammers as there’s quite a lot of them living in Malaysia. I have been to Japan and working there is definitely on my bucket list. However, there are plenty of older single ladies there so mature dating should be pretty good there.
There are a lot less scummy Western tourists there, but you’ve still got the tropical climate Thailand is popular for. It’s much more likely you would end up chatting to the many Malaysian Chinese women who live there. I actually found out older Japanese people tended to speak better English than the younger people. Again it’s likely to be quite hard to get dates there unless you’re familiar with the country and its customs.
The food was good, there was lots to see and do, and it was pretty cheap – especially things like transportation.
On the downside alcohol is expensive if you’re into that.